Monday, October 15, 2007

My Random Ponderings

It's interesting the different answers people come up with to these questions. You're welcome to answer them here in a comment or to just ponder them to yourself.


Why do we have such a need to have someone else in our lives to make us feel complete?

Why do we love when we know we might get hurt or hurt someone?

Why do we need love at all?

Is there such a thing as love at first sight?

Is there such a thing as soul mates?

5 comments:

ATLLG said...

Why do we have such a need to have someone else in our lives to make us feel complete?
I have no clue something about eating an apple and then all the animals two by two that started this "pairing" shit.

Why do we love when we know we might get hurt or hurt someone?
You either like pain or don't. If you like it you do the hurting.

Why do we need love at all?
We don't. But they usually won't have sex with you unless you say you love them.

Is there such a thing as love at first sight?
No, it's a different four letter word that starts with the same letter as love. L-U-S-T

Is there such a thing as soul mates?
Maybe, but all the other shit that comes with it doesn't make up for the SOUL part. Bad oral. Bad breath. ED. 10 seconds to climax.

Anonymous said...

Why do we have such a need to have someone else in our lives to make us feel complete?
Because most things are nicer when they are shared.

Why do we love when we know we might get hurt or hurt someone?
That's a good question and something that I'm actually dealing with right now. I'm so afraid of getting hurt that I usually try to end the relationship right when i start to invest in it that way I don't get hurt. Good plan, right? Yeah, I know it's stupid.

Why do we need love at all?
No clue.

Is there such a thing as love at first sight?
No, but there are those feelings like "Wow! This is good" I think thats what's confused with love at first sight.

Is there such a thing as soul mates?
Not sure. I like to think there is one person for everyone but I really don't know.

These are good questions.

SoCal Sal said...

Way cool. Very good questions!!!!!

Why do we have such a need to have someone else in our lives to make us feel complete? I wouldn’t categorize it as “to feel complete” more like we are wired for companionship. We are wired to want to share our experiences with others. We are definitely wired for love. How else can you explain that feeling that doesn’t make any sense and the sometime goofy stuff people can do because if it.

Why do we love when we know we might get hurt or hurt someone? We can’t help it. And we shouldn’t fight it. What does not kill us makes us stronger.

Why do we need love at all? We have to.

Is there such a thing as love at first sight? Yes!

Is there such a thing as soul mates? Yes but it is difficult to get to that point. In my experience, especially on line, the more open and honest you are the more you feel soul connected. On line there is a sense of safety that can allow one to be more open with others. There is a sense of not being judged as if someone does not like they can move along. This allows us to actually connect at a deeper level. The more totally open, the deeper the connection. The more you open up that secret place that you only go yourself, you allow someone to accept you for you. That is a wonderful connection whatever you want to call it.

Well, hello there. LOL

Cali Girl said...

Hi right back at ya :)

Thanks for all your answers, it's really interesting to read other peoples thoughts and opinions on topics like these.

I'd love to hear from anyone else!

SoCal Sal said...

Pleased to make your acquaintance! I do enjoy the intellectual challenge and it is way cool to read others thoughts and opinions. Can actually help one grow in their own thinking. Nothing wrong with this old dog learning a thing or two.